Last week I discussed how to find lifelong motivation to exercise and today I’m excited to tackle an equally daunting task: how to fight the urge to eat high-fat, high-sugar junk food and choose to eat well.
First, it’s critical that you understand why you crave the foods that you do. There are a couple main reason that I will discuss that you can see in this uber-high tech concept map I worked on while writing this article today:
1. Our Bodies are Built to Crave Fat. I wrote an article that touched on this topic before. Basically, craving high calorie (and therefore usually high fat) foods is a built-in survival mechanism. Our ancestors never knew for sure how long food would be around for so they sought out the highest calories foods to stockpile in their systems in case of famine. Since the process of evolution takes tens of thousands of years to catch up the bodies we have now are still operating as though we are living prior to the advent of reliable food sources.
2. Low-Fat diets became all the rage in the 90′s and the food industry retaliated by taking the fat out of foods and replacing it with sugar. Taking the fat out of foods make them taste like crap (fat molecules act as a carrier for flavor. No fat = no flavor) Sugar was used as a sub so suddenly food products were injected with artificial sweeteners to try and mimic the fat that was taken out of them. Here lies the birth of our modern sugar addiction epidemic! People are becoming seriously addicted to sugar as it acts on the brain’s reward systems the same way illicit drugs do.
3. We are conditioned from a very young age to associate food with positive emotions. Your parents likely rewarded you with food for good behavior. Dessert, more specifically. From early childhood people start to equate sweets with being ‘good’. As adults many people will turn to food for emotional reasons seeking those same feelings of reward and validation.
4. The media bombards us with ‘fitspiration’ images and an obsession with unrealistic thinness that actually causes cravings. When you watch television your brainwaves enter into a state similar to meditation or hypnosis. You see these images of juicy burgers, decadent desserts and incredible pasta dishes and the parts of your brain that control critical thinking have shut down and those images have now gone straight to your subconscious. Chances are the commercials paired images of their food with positive things: hanging out with friends, being on a date with your significant other,…and now, without begin aware of it, your brain has associated those food items with positive emotions we crave as humans.
Now that you have a better understanding of why you crave the food you do you are better equipped to fight them.
Tips for choosing the apple over the candy bar. Years of healthy eating and I’ve now properly trained my taste buds to crave natural fruits and most candy bars taste like crappy plastic!
1. Eat REAL food. Stay away from Frankenstein foods and artificial chemicals. I don’t do ‘diets’ but my basic eating guidelines are as follows: eat colors, don’t drink calories and enjoy carbs and healthy fats in moderation. That’s it.
2. Eat mindfully. Do not eat while watching television. How often have you done this just to realize when your food is gone that you don’t even remember eating? Set aside time to slowly enjoy your food. The more you stop to taste and savor it the less likely you are to overeat.
3. Remember that you become the food you eat, literally. The cells in your body are made up of the food that you’ve ingested. Look at that ingredient list of your low-fat diet food … do you want your skin, hair or nails made up of chemicals you can’t pronounce?
4. Think of food in a positive light. Picture the healthy life you are working for and use food as fuel to get you there. Want to be happy, have more energy and live longer? It starts with food.
5. Eat on a schedule and EAT BREAKFAST. Think back to the last few really bad food decisions you made. Chances are you were starving at the time. I make it a point to eat every 3-4 hours and if I go longer than that I start making bad food choices. I bring healthy snacks with me everywhere so I’m prepared to keep to my schedule to avoid cravings. Be prepared. If you let yourself get to the point of ‘omg my head hurts I’m so hungry’ what do you think your more likely to grab, a cup of baby carrots or a bag of chips?
Further Reading:
CNN Health: Why do I crave comfort food?
Huffington Post Healthy Living: Why do we crave the foods we do?
Psychology Today: Finding the motivation to eat more mindfully.
Daily Mail: Why we crave sugary snacks and not fruits and veggies.
MindBodyGreen: 14 mind-blowing facts about sugar.
What are your tips for making healthy eating choices?







for me it was taking the time and INVESTING THE TIME and risking trial and error and FINALLY BECOMING AN INTUITIVE eater.
(and adding in lottsa good fat :-))
Good fat is essential! If I end up eating mostly just veggies, fruits and protein one day (without any good fats) I’ll find myself getting irritable and uber hungry at the end of the day. I now make a point of having peanut butter, nuts or using quality oils when I cook to make sure I’m getting enough fat!
I needed this today; thank you!
You are always welcome! :)
Great way to break down the science into simple terms!
Thank you! As a teacher it was hard for me not to turn this in to the equivalent of a 1 hour lecture, but I think people won’t be motivated to eat well for life unless they are equipped with the knowledge of what they are up against!
I love what you said about not eating frankfoods. You can have sweet things like apples, and they’re beter for you than crazy diet sugar laiden bars!
I totally ripped that term from a Jillian Micahels book I read years ago, but it’s so fitting! I think many people don’t see an apple as a viable option in place of candy at first because fruits don’t taste sweet in comparison to frankenfoods. Once I stopped eating those the incredible natural flavors of fruits could come out and it made such a huge difference!
Great post! My tips are to always be prepared!! Take a day to meal prep and make sure you always have healthy snacks/food with you!!
#Truth! I spend most of Sunday afternoon cooking healthy dishes for the week and prepping veggies to snack on. It makes it so much easier to stick with eating healthy!
Have you read the book It Starts with Food? It is very very good and covers what you just talked about in even more detail. Definitely recommend it if you haven’t read it yet.
I haven’t read that yet! I’m so behind on my ‘to read’ list. Adding it to that list though!
Loved this post! Naturally love the psychology of it (such a nerd, I am!) and have never heard the term “Frankenstein Foods,” but it’s great! It makes me sad when I see friends eating “low-fat” foods when I know they are basically shoving chemicals down their throats!
I definitely suffered from the low-fat mentality for years and when I first started to lose weight I ate nothing but crap ‘diet’ foods that left me feeling absolutely terrible (irritable, no energy,…) I noticed such a huge improvement when I started to eat real food!
Wow I’m definitely bookmarking this post. Number 4 on the first list really shocked me, I’d heard everything else you mentioned before but it’s scary to think we’re essentially being brainwashed! Thanks for this post.
I will be writing up a *major* post on the effects of tv (and why I haven’t had cable for years!) very soon!
I am definitely a poster child for being rewarded with junk food as a kid. It’s so true that we literally are what we eat and I always tell a difference in my skin after eating greens vs. crap.
A lot of my skin problems cleared up after I quit eating so much junk food! All those chemicals and artificial sweeteners caused me to break out all of the time. No bueno!
And we are made to associate sweet and fat with good! and so we want that.
I did Whole30 for the month of January and since eliminating sugar/sweeteners and grains from my diet no longer have cravings. hurray!
Good for you! It can be a tough habit to kick but it is SO worth it!
Great post Erica! I like how you broke it down into simple terms.
This is something I’d want to do once I graduate with a BS in Dietetics. I’m going to double minor in psychology and biology and this is one of the things that can help when dealing with clients. =)
What an incredible educational combination! I wish I could get more education in the field of nutrition. I’m hoping to get certified as a Fitness Nutrition specialist soon!
I really needed this post today. I struggle with emotional eating and its so hard to say no to yourself sometimes. Thank you,
You are quite welcome! I’ve been able to tone down my emotional eating since I used to eat most when I was stressed – and now I have regular exercise for that!
Another awesome psychology post. I can’t tell you enough how great this is. I really like your insight about “you are what you eat.” No, I do not want my nails and hair to be made of things I can’t pronounce. Yick! Good point. Also, I’ve found that since I started eating super healthy, processed and greasy foods make me feel sick now. I not only crave good food, I do NOT crave the bad ones that give me tummy trouble now.
Thank you! It’s always great to know people really enjoy the posts I work so hard on :) Keeping the ‘you are what you eat’ thing in mind has definitely helped me avoid crap chemicals foods in the past.
I struggle much more with the eating than with the exercising. And I don’t overeat, I don’t snack a lot, I don’t sit in front of the TV with a huge bowl of anything…but I have a sweet tooth and I will grab a few m&ms here and there throughout the day, or a piece of chocolate, or if I have cookies made I’ll grab that (we rarely buy them, but I do bake them). I would say though that my absolute biggest struggle is soda. I mostly only have one coke a day, and I go through phases of trying to cut back and I get so stressed out and irritable, and the afternoon is so hard to get through without that caffeine kick. And I don’t like coffee or most teas. I think it will always be something I struggle with. My dad kept our fridge stocked with sodas with no restrictions, put spoonfuls of sugar on my already sugary cereals, etc. :( My mom wasn’t a fan but did nothing to stop it, either. My kids don’t get soda and rarely juice and I don’t even put sugar on their rice krispies. Haha! They do get chocolate milk made with the carnation instant breakfast powder because they hate plain milk. It’s SO HARD to make sure I am not only being as healthy as I can be, but a good example for the kids. My husband and I don’t like a lot of the same veggies. We eat a lot of broccoli, carrots, green beans, peas, cauliflower, but that about ends our list of compatible veggies. And he hates fruit, except blackberries and oranges.
At least you are trying! I’m convinced weight control is determined much more by eating than by exercising. If I bust BUTT for an hour workout out I burn maybe 500 calories – which is a piece of cake or 2 slices of pizza! Food is definitely harder for people to control. If your main vice is one soda a day you are still doing far better than most people! Even having a few pieces of chocolate throughout the day isn’t bad – it’s much better to indulge your cravings in moderation than to completely ignore them.
Awesome post! I agree with all of your tips, and would also add that for me (someone with dietary restrictions also) it was about focusing on all the delicious, whole and healthy foods I could eat. I make a point of having a salad with EVERY dinner, so I’m always getting in my nutrients (plus filling up on some healthy veggies) and now, when I skip the salad, I feel so lethargic. Healthy eating really does become a habit over time! Your body craves it!
Ahhhh great point! I can’t believe I forgot that one! I often tell people to never focus on what they ‘cant’ have but think of all the incredible foods they can enjoy.
Thanks for the post! Good tips. I recently saw a quote somewhere that said (or something along the lines of) “When you see the words “reduced fat” or ‘low calorie’ think of the word ‘chemical shitstorm.”
LOL. Very succinct (and true!)
I love this thank you so much for sharing. I am fascinated by why I want to eat certain things, I have always been relatively lean but still there are impacts of a bad diet beyond weight gain. Figuring out how to do the right thing in the pivotal moments on my own over the years hasn’t come easy, I should have sought out info like you have offered years ago!
I feel people will be much better equipped to handle their cravings if they better understand where they are coming from, in a biological sense. I think it makes people feel less ‘bad’ about wanting to eat certain things when they know it’s not their fault!
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Just catching up on my blog reader. Great post! After years of training my body not to consume sweets I now find that I do crave veggies and apples more than french fries or sweets. I don’t diet either, just make smart choices and enjoy moderation. When I do have chest days, ugh I feel so sick afterwards. I’ll take my healthy lifestyle any day!
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You just described my entire outlook on healthy eating! So simple but effective. Eat real food, sugar and fat in moderation, and be in it for life.
I love your interesting post! This was such an eye opener– specially the part about the media/TV and how it puts us in a state of hypnosis. I can def testify to that!!! I know this can be a trigger for me so im always finding ways to avoid it!
no doubt sugar is still my one weakness… I have been thinking a lot about why on Earth I can so easily say good bye to eggs and milk, but seem to keep falling back on sugar
It’s just so addictive! Sugar acts on the brains neurotransmitters in a way that other foods, like eggs and milk, never will. I’ve found trying to turn to naturally sweet foods (chocolate, fruit) when I get a sugar craving helps. Also, I’ve noticed that I often crave sweets just when I’m tired so I’ll make a cup of tea and the caffeine negates the sugar craving.